A Letter from the Bishop: A Reset During Pentecost-5.21.26

My Siblings in Christ,

I shared this with diocesan governance, and believe it has relevance for the entire diocesan family.

At our recent clergy conference, I discussed the idea that we are conditioned to move fast and break things to make progress. I encouraged us, as the church, to do the opposite: go slow, repair, and restore, always with reverence and respect. This is who we are as a people of God.

As Pentecost (Whitsun) approaches, we remember its gift: a diverse group of people communicating and understanding each other. Let’s use this time to reset how we interact, focusing on real communication and listening so we can truly understand one another.

Poor communication often leads to arguments or broken relationships. Sometimes we don’t give enough information, misinterpret and misunderstand, ignore what’s said, or don’t ask for more details or admit when we’re confused. I know I’ve hurt relationships because I assumed someone understood what I meant and why I said it. Perhaps I failed to ask, “Is this what you meant to say because this is what I heard.”

A gift we can give one another is our genuine presence, making others feel seen and heard. Let’s try to let go of assumptions in every conversation, pay full attention, and really work to understand each other as we move forward together. Intentionally practicing this in our diocese is key to repairing and restoring relationships.

If you have questions about any diocesan program, budget, or initiative, please ask. Don’t assume information is being kept from you or that something is wrong. Ask your questions with respect. If you don’t receive the information you requested, ask again. If you still don’t get what you need, call me. If someone asks you for information, share everything you know, thoughtfully and kindly. Afterward, check in by asking: “Did I answer your question? Do you have all the information you need?”

How we handle disagreements and challenges shapes a healthy community. By listening, learning, and understanding, we can reset and repair misunderstandings. Together, our purpose is clear: to be a united and bold community that follows Jesus Christ.

God bless you,

Bishop Daniel